What is should i be friends with someone who rejected me?

As an AI language model, I cannot make decisions for you, but I can provide some information and considerations to help you make an informed decision.

Here are some things to keep in mind when considering whether to remain friends with someone who rejected you:

  1. Can you handle being friends with them without any romantic feelings or hopes?

If you still have unrequited feelings for the person who rejected you, it may be difficult or even painful to remain friends with them. Consider whether you can honestly say that you don't expect anything more than friendship from them. If you're not sure, it might be best to take some time apart to let your feelings resolve themselves before deciding to reconnect.

  1. Are they willing and able to be friends with you?

It's possible that the person who rejected you may not want to or be able to maintain a friendship with you. This doesn't necessarily mean they don't like you as a person, but they may have valid reasons for wanting to keep some distance. Respect their choice, and don't push them to be friends if they're not comfortable with it.

  1. What was your relationship like before and after the rejection?

If you were close friends before the rejection, it may be easier to stay friends as long as both of you are willing to move past what happened and respect each other's boundaries. If you didn't know each other very well before or if things got awkward after the rejection, it may be more difficult to rebuild a friendship.

  1. Will the friendship be healthy and fulfilling for both of you?

If the only reason you want to stay friends is to try to change their mind about dating you, the friendship is unlikely to be healthy or fulfilling for either of you. Consider whether you genuinely enjoy spending time with them and have shared interests and values. If so, a friendship could be a positive thing. However, if you're only interested in being friends because you don't want to lose them entirely, it may be better to let them go and move on.

In summary, deciding whether or not to be friends with someone who has rejected you is a personal choice that depends on many factors. You should only pursue a friendship if you can handle it emotionally, the other person is willing and able, the relationship was strong before and after the rejection, and the friendship will be healthy and fulfilling for both of you. If these conditions are not met, it may be best to keep some distance or move on entirely.